Your Child’s IEP Is Probably Wrong — Here’s Why

The Parent Trap
July 8, 2026

“Some dads pass on a lifetime of memories; my father handed me two words: ‘Don’t panic.’”

When you’re raising a child with severe autism, your parenting P&L shifts overnight. You stop managing schedules and start managing crises. In this episode, I’m joined by John Fela—the “Swiss Army Knife” of disability advocacy—to talk about building an operational system for your family, advocating with schools, and navigating the isolation of special-needs parenting.

John isn’t here for sympathy. He’s here for systems. We break down how to move beyond helplessness into tactical engagement, build intentional support networks, and define the boundaries that actually defend your child’s future.

Whether you’re a parent of a neurodivergent kid or a pro navigating the IEP landscape, this is the playbook for showing up without burning out.